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Pourquoi faut il jamais lâcher l'affaire?
L'année dernière mon fournisseur d'eau m'a certifié par tél. que c'est illégal de changer un nom/prénom/civilité sur un contrat, sauf à fermer le contrat et en refaire un nouveau sur présentation de CNI, et que ça coute 150€!
Les frais déjà n'ont pas lieu en temps normal...
Rageant de recevoir ma facture encore à deadname, j'ai fait un mail, juste en disant mon prénom c'est ça, et ma civilité M.
Réponse aujourd'hui, iz ok on vous change ça de suite Oo

Moralité si preuve de loi et menace de procès suffisent pas, essayer un autre moyen de communication, ça dépend totalement des conseillers...

(j'ai légalement changé de prénom en mars 20174, la chef factice ne me distribue plus les courrier à deadname alors que c'est illégal, mais je l'allume à chaque fois que j'ai la preuve)

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We are not "safe"

We disagree with the concept of "safe" which is usually not defined, unclear and open to interpretation. "Safe" is used to do things that are completely contradictory, it can be used to prevent social justice, to tone police and to silence social activist, to defend oppressors, to prevail popularity over social justice.
We consider that activism and politics can't be "safe" in such way that we have to talk about subjects that might be difficult to handle for people living them, but as well because we need to fight against injustice.
We also think that "safeness" is an unreachable goal and an unhealthy one. We believe that such a goal would only lead to policing and exclusion of people that would need help.

That being said, we are not free-speech absolutists. We do believe in moderation and we do have rules, even if they are unspoken. That way, we will not tolerate any kind of racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia or any other kind of speech promoting systemic oppressions.
We also promote the use of content warnings and NSFW filters.

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